5. 

How many years did it take to get married or was it just not for them

It took them forever to get married. It sort of ended up being an afterthought. In fact, it was when they were first looking into the adoption process that they considered marriage for purely conveniences sake. They wanted to have a quick ceremony at City Hall, but Palmer insisted on a proper wedding. It ended up being just a few people, but it was really cute.

15. Have they saved each other’s lives before 
Not really, but Barry always states that he’d do anything for Lucas, and tends to come up with increasingly complex scenarios in which he heroically saves his husband and it always makes Lucas blush and get all embarrassed. 

24. 

Where would they vacation for a honeymoon

The closest thing they had to a honeymoon was a couple nights in Snowpoint after they got married so they could celebrate with Dawn and Paul in their current city of residence before heading back south to Sandgem. 

37. 

Do they get into fights often? If so what do they fight over and how do they make up?

Barry has a quick temper and Lucas tends to stew, so their arguments are usually over petty things that escalate due to mutual refusal to concede. Barry is almost always the once who ends up initiating the make up and will apologize in his over the top manner to Lucas, who then smiles and says a simple ‘Thank you, love.’ that just makes Barry fall in love all over again.

43. 

Who dies first

Barry dies first due to a combination of old age and a bad case of the flu, then Lucas passes a few years later in his sleep not long after the birth of their first great-grandchild.